Friday, October 29, 2010

A sad day.

Today was probably one of the worst days in one of my best friend's life. Me and my other besties rallied around her while she lay her big brother, and only sibling, to rest. I got the news Sunday that her brother had passed away the night before. I was shocked and hurting so badly for my friend. You don't expect things like this to happen and when they do, what do you say?

Chris accompanied me to the funeral to show his support for Kara and her parents as well. It was heartbreaking looking at all the photos. Pictures of her and him in the bath tub together when they were little, photos of him cuddling with his Daddy on the couch. I have those same photos of my boys. I can't imagine what her parents are going through. How do you tell your son goodbye? Her parents are so strong.

Kara gave a beautiful speech about her brother. There wasn't a dry eye in the room. She shared numerous memories of her brother and talked about how much he loved his three year old daughter. I choke up just thinking about her words. I am so proud of her for being able to do that and I believe Kevin was listening.

Our hearts ache for Kara and I hope she knows how much we love her. She will never be alone especially during a time like this. I believe in Heaven and I know she will see him again. That won't make her miss him any less between now and then - but I hope she knows it will happen.

Please pray for the McElwee family.

News report here

Friday, October 22, 2010

Alec's Birth Story (long)

Since I never did share Alec's birth story I thought now was a good time.

I started having severe gallbladder attacks just before 36 weeks. I couldn't take it anymore so went to L&D. The doctor decided to do an amnio at 37 weeks and if his lungs were mature they would induce me that day so I could have my gallbladder removed the following day. I was really nervous because Chris was gone for the Army and they were going to allow him to drive the 14 hour drive home for two days so he could make the birth. Well, the worst thing that could have happened given that situation happened. His results came back 'borderline' meaning they had to physically drive the results to the U of M for further testing. The test would be another five hours before an answer. Chris was already two hours into his drive by this time. If he turned around and waited there was no way he could drive that far on zero sleep. If he stopped and waited the same issue. If he drove home and the result weren't that he was ready Chris would be home then and not for the birth. Chris decided he was coming home. I was bawling at the Hospital. How could this happen?

The nurse really felt bad for me and I was even more upset when the results took longer then originally planned. Finally, at 9:15 pm the nurse came into the waiting room and said "YAY! The results are back and baby is READY!!" I was so excited!! I called Chris and told him I was being admitted. They put some medication (cerdival) in me at 11 pm and 2 am to help ripen my cervix while I slept. I didn't get a whole lot of sleep due to the anticipation of Chris coming home and getting to meet my little man. Chris showed up around 4 am and crawled into bed with me. The doctor came in at 8 am and checked me getting ready for my induction. Amazingly enough the medication they gave me to ready my cervix put me into labor!!! I was 4 cm dialated and contracting every 2.5 mins!

I walked the halls with Chris until they broke my water at 9 am. My contractions never got too painful for me but I was nervous because I remembered how bad it was with Carsyn. At 11 am they started pitocin because my contractions slowed and I asked if I could have my epidural. My doctor said if I am laughing and smiling at her there is no way I was getting it yet. I pouted a little bit but the truth was I wasn't in too bad of pain yet.  My contractions started to increase rapidly so the nurse came in and ordered my epidural. The anesthesiologist was there in no time. I had tons of visitors this time. My mom, Chris's mom, my brother, and a couple of friends. I literally never felt like I was in labor at any point. While I was talking to people around 2 pm I said "Oh, I can feel him coming down now". The doctor thought it would be several more hours until I delivered. She checked me and I was 8 cm. Ten minutes later I said I thought I could feel his head coming down. They checked me and sure enough 10 cm! That was quick. I told them I didn't want to push yet and just let him come down on his own. At 2:30 I felt like he was ready. They asked everyone to clear the room and told me to give a push. I did and the doctor yelled "STOP!" She said "he is right there". I said "right where?" She said "right there, you can touch his hair if you want". I opted out of touching his hair, I figured I could wait a few more minutes, lol.

Two contractions and four pushes later, he was born. I didn't even break a sweat. It was honestly the easiest delivery known to man. I even told Chris I felt weird because it didn't feel like I just gave birth. When I saw his face I thought he looked a lot like Carsyn but also like his own person. He had a perfectly round head (Carsyn my 10lb'r had quite the cone head!) He also had extremely bright eyes. Carsyn had brown when he was born so I remember how bright Alec's eyes were more then anything. He had a hard time breathing due to inhaling a ton of fluid so he was admitted into level two nursery. He was able to come home one day late. It was such an awesome experience. Having a baby isn't something you do every day. But, you sure do remember everything about it forever. I had to wait until 7:30 pm until I got to see him again. But - now he is a super happy and healthy big boy!


Alec Daniel born February 12, 2010, 2:44 pm at 37 weeks. 7lbs 10oz, 20.75 inches.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Weigh-in Thursdays

Today was my Weight Watcher meeting which means week two is complete. Happy to report another loss on the scale. I have already lost half of the weight I gained over the summer (Yay!) I look forward to another week.


Weeks on the program:    2
Weight lost/gained this week:   -2.8 lbs
Total of weight loss:       -6.4 lbs

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Weight Watchers

I just want to start out by saying that I love Weight Watchers. Honestly. I joined in June 2009 and quickly lost 10lbs in one month without exercising. I found out I was pregnant and had to quit my membership. In February, six days after Alec was born, I rejoined excited as ever to lose my baby weight. By May I weighed 35lbs less then when I originally joined in 2009 (plus I had an entire pregnancy in there!). I must confess though when summer hit I decided to take a break until winter.

About the program:

You are given a set amount of daily points based on a number of factors like height, activity level, weight, etc. They give you all the tools you need to easily transfer foods into point values. In addition to your daily points you get 35 bonus points to do whatever you want with!! You can go out for dinner, eat candy, whatever you want. You can eat all your bonus points in one day or spread them out throughout the week. I had pizza and beers with Chris the other night (and still have 14 bonus points to spend this week). You also earn points with activities/exercises. You can choose whether or not to eat the activity points.

I rejoined the program 10 days ago. I like to go to the meetings because it gets me back into being excited about it every week, plus you learn a ton of great ideas/recipes. It also makes losing weight seem more doable. Instead of looking at the BIG picture, I look to the next weigh in just a week away. I don't get discourage by a two pound loss, I get excited!! Its very psychological for me but it works.

I like my weigh-in on Thursday because by then my weight has leveled off from the weekend and my bonus points are reset for the next weekend!! On Thursday I am proud to announce I was down 3.6lbs! I can't wait to see what the next weigh in brings.

Weeks on the program:    1
Weight lost/gained this week:   -3.6lbs
Total of weight loss:       -3.6lbs

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Monday, October 4, 2010

Boys just wanna have fun...


Although, Alec doesn't look too sure about all this... LOL!